LiZug combines proven relationship psychology with Jewish observance and values to help singles choose wisely, couples strengthen their marriages, and shadchanim make more informed introductions.
Understand yourself before you choose someone else. Discover how you communicate, handle conflict, express love, and the kind of Jewish home you want to build.
Compare your results in one shared compatibility report and uncover strengths, differences, and conversations worth having before your relationship moves forward.
Understand what makes your relationship work, why certain patterns repeat, and where small changes can strengthen your marriage for years to come.
Go beyond the résumé. Understand how each person communicates, what they value, and the kind of marriage they hope to build before making an introduction.
Built on proven relationship science and decades of practical use, LiZug combines trusted frameworks used by therapists and professional coaches with Jewish observance, values, and marriage vision. The result is a more complete picture of compatibility for Orthodox Jewish marriage.
A résumé tells you where someone learned, where they grew up, and how they describe themselves. It cannot tell you how they communicate under pressure, respond to conflict, express love, make decisions, or what they truly want to build in a marriage. LiZug helps fill that gap before the relationship becomes serious.
LiZug measures eight areas that influence long-term compatibility. Together they provide a clearer picture of how two people relate to each other, navigate challenges, and build a Jewish home.
See the full scienceBehavioral Style: Before you decide anything, you like to hear what everyone else thinks first. You ask a lot of questions and avoid disagreeing openly, even when you don't agree. Under pressure, you go quiet instead of arguing back. A partner who expects a quick reaction might think your silence means you agree, or that you've pulled away, when really you're just thinking it through.
What you have in common: You both prioritize a clear budget and a defined Shabbat routine. Where to pay attention: one of you argues out loud to work through a problem, the other shuts down and needs an hour before continuing. Without knowing this pattern, arguments escalate before either of you feels heard.
“I've been a shadchan for 14 years. I've never seen anything go this deep.”
“The report gave me context I wouldn't have had otherwise. Before making an introduction, I could see how someone communicates, handles disagreements, and what they're looking to build in a marriage. It made my conversations with both sides much more focused.”
“I thought I had a clear picture of the kind of person I wanted to marry. The assessment helped me understand myself better, and after discussing the report with my shadchan, the introductions I received felt much more aligned with what I was actually looking for.”
Chemistry matters. Compatibility matters too. Take the assessment separately and receive one shared report that highlights your strengths, your differences, and the conversations worth having before moving forward together.
You know something works between you. Do you know what it is, or what could quietly stop working? Get both your individual profiles and your full couple compatibility report.
Learn more about the Married Couples ReportIf your report fails to generate, is missing a section you paid for, or contains a factual error in how your answers were scored, we'll refund you in full within 14 days. No opinions needed, just results delivered as promised.